Being understood consists of your cooperation. Talking shouldn't be as hard as it becomes sometimes. So, I'm giving out ways that even you can help others! Follow my tips, and see how they do for you!
Number 1.) Take it slow.
It's a story, which means there's no point in rushing what you're saying. Taking it slow gives your story a better chance for better structure, and allows a more natural flow. Plus, the people getting the story are hearing it more clearly.
NUmber 2.) Think before you speak.
Yes, thinking before you speak is going to be helpful. I know we all make this mistake daily. We just say the first thing that came to the mind which leads back to number 1 and also can mess up what you're saying, making it hard for others to get where you going.
Number 3.) Honesty Is Policy
Honesty? Yes, honesty! If you're making up lies, then you won't always have the same story. And as much as you wouldn't think so, people do notice. You also will be clearer if you are speaking exactly what you know.
Number 4.) Save Time.
This is the same as I said in "understanding." No time for misunderstanding, and you need to avoid arguement. Emotions will make everything harder and more critical. Emotions can really put a damper on a situation.
Number 5.) Give examples.
Examples are key, especially since getting the point across in a natural and smooth way is what you're trying to do. Giving examples will allow them to open their mind and better "understand" what it is you're explaining.
Number 6.) Watch your judgment.
We all jump to conclusions, judging before we even really know someone. So, if you think you don't make expressions when you hear something you don't feel so strongly about, then you're wrong. When you hear things, you put people into files, like stereotypes. Let's try not to do that or to at least hold it off until you really know them.
Number 7.) Don't over share.
Ever heard of TMI? It means too much information for you who haven't. Never say more than you're comfortable with, because you will unconsciously show that you are uncomfortable, making them feel the same way. Or, you will make them uncomfortable or uncertain with the conversation.
Number 8.) Speak up.
No one likes when people whisper, because obviously no one can hear them.
Number 9.) Speak with emotion.
Really put the listeners where you are. Show emotion, express it in such a way that they understand things from your view.
Number 10.) Brush your teeth.
Yes, I'm serious. Brush your teeth. Smelly breath is a no no anywhere you go. ;)